What to do if your tech-savvy partner ignores you

We all go through a period in our lives when we feel ignored in a relationship. This is especially true if one of the partners is technologically savvy. We struggle to get our partner’s attention, but it appears that our efforts are futile because his or her heart belongs to the love of all things technological.

However, when we are in such a situation, we frequently argue with ourselves about whether it is simply a result of our overthinking or if it is truly the case. It can be the latter at times.

So, if you, too, are feeling ignored by your tech-savvy partner, here are three things you can try.

Make a timetable

It can be difficult for all of the tech kings and queens to put their inquisitive minds on hold and engage in a healthy conversation. It is possible that your partner will be surfing the Internet while keeping you on call at times. This could be extremely inconvenient. So, if your partner, too, does this, tell them how you feel avoided and ignored and that they should follow a timetable. Make sure you don’t disturb them during their work hours and let them satisfy their hunger for knowledge during that time. But when the two of you are together in person or on call, tell them the time purely belongs to you two and work can’t be a hindrance.

Show interest in their work

If, unlike your partner, you aren’t particularly tech-savvy, this may appear to be a Herculean task. Having an interest in technology isn’t for everyone. Even if you dislike Tech Talk, try to be interested in what your partner does. This may give you and your partner a little more time to spend together while also making your partner happy. If it’s too difficult, try it for a few minutes. By doing so, your partner may realize their error on their own and may surprise you with a lot more time when they see you putting in so much effort.

Be out-front about it

If nothing else works, you can be open and honest. Tell your partner where they are going wrong and how they can fix it. Don’t argue, just state your case clearly. Discuss the situation and reach a mutual decision. There’s a chance your partner will explain that it’s because of a specific project they’re working on, that they’ve had a few difficult days, and that it’s only a matter of time. If that’s the case, all you have to do is be patient and supportive of your partner. After all, who would want to lose a technologically savvy partner?