Re-build your intimacy by recreating the pleasurable time you had as a new couple before. Intimacy without intercourse is possible.
Sex might create a magical bond between couples. With steamy sexual intercourses, you would feel strengthening. But, there are times where you would not feel like indulging in sex. You might have delivered a baby or healing issues or hesitating problems because of painful sex or your partner might be experiencing erectile dysfunction or experiencing health problems. Here are some to rebuild your intimacy without sex.
RE-ENACT YOUR FIRST DATE
Do what you have done for your very first date. Recreate the exact feel with your partner as if you just met and now on a first date by holding each other’s hands and you could take your eyes off from each other. Get to know each other’s interests and try new things as if you were on the first date.
FEEL THE TOUCH
In a long-term relationship, you do not want to touch each other until both of you want sex. Touch your partner all day and have a cuddling session. It might be gentle kissing, hugs, nudging, running your fingers through hair or beard, or stroking his cheek or giving massages to each other. It could stimulate your feel erotically by knowing each other’s sensitive areas of the bodies.
HOLD EACH OTHER’S HANDS
Holding each other’s hands expresses much of love towards each other without even uttering a single word. It is an actual act of love and intimacy that goes throughout your relationship and it lasts forever. This act would tell more about your relationship.
INTIMACY BEYOND SEX
If you are in a relationship then you might not having dinner together or watching a movie together always. Just develop new interests as a couple again and involve in it together. It might be playing sports together, joining a couples-only book club, concerts or painting or trying something creative. This benefits your intimacy and triggers your brain to involve in many interesting talk.