What are the most common concerns about sex?

The fear of sexual intercourse is known as genophobia. Fear of sex can be psychological or physical, preventing people from enjoying intimacy. There is also concern about contracting diseases. The most common causes of sex phobia are discussed below.

Performance anxiety

Many people choose to postpone having sex until marriage. This could be due to their socio-cultural and religious upbringing. People who are new to sex may be concerned about the methods of intimacy. Such people may be afraid of embarrassment if they fail to please their partner through orgasm. Low self-esteem can also lead to sex apprehension.

Fears about Condoms & Pregnancy

Couples in new relationships, particularly newlyweds, may wish to postpone pregnancy. As a result, the use of condoms becomes mandatory. Condoms, on the other hand, have been known to break and result in unintended pregnancies. Naturally, concerns about the durability of the rubber may deter people from having sex.

Women are also concerned that their male partners will refuse to use condoms at all. Condoms are not a new invention. Ancient Egyptians, Chinese, and Japanese peoples all wore protective sheaths centuries ago. The desire to go bare is more natural, however, due to the subconscious genetic drive to procreate. Consent, on the other hand, is critical. If a woman requests that a man use a condom, he should comply.

Sexually transmitted diseases 

Going bare may feel good for men, but it is extremely dangerous. Serious diseases such as gonorrhoea, Chlamydia, Syphilis, Herpes, Hepatitis A and B, and potentially fatal AIDS If Gonorrhoea and Chlamydia are not treated, there is a risk of developing Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID). This can result in infertility.

While most of these diseases are treatable, the fear of such ailments may dampen the spirits of couples in bed. Condoms are thus required. Before having sex, the partners should also be tested.

Past Trauma

Many children are sexually abused by adults and grow up to fear or despise sex. Those who had unpleasant sexual experiences in their previous relationship want to avoid repeating such scenarios. Sexual encounters can cause both psychological and physical trauma, which can be treated.