My spouse and I have been in a marital squabble for nearly two years. We used to be a happy couple, but now all we do is quarrel and bicker over little topics that have no bearing on our relationship. I’ve had a crush on my spouse from the first time I saw him across the room at my nephew’s birthday party. He was fascinating, daring, and amusing. He certainly knew how to make me laugh! And we had a wonderful relationship and sex life as soon as we started dating. We both had a penchant for strange things that allowed us to enjoy each other’s company. It was simply fantastic!
But as our marriage progressed, we began to separate in new ways. We both worked, watched TV, or were immersed on our phones. We began to notice flaws in each other in ways we had never seen before. Our sex life was also changing dramatically. We hardly ever touched each other and even kissed each other merely for the purpose of kissing. All of our sexual encounters came to an abrupt end. Our marriage had been at a halt for over a year when we realised it wasn’t going to work.
I adored him, and I’m sure he does as well. But, once again, love is insufficient to sustain a marriage. The thing that struck us the most was that our sex life had completely vanished. It was impacting me too much now that we didn’t have a physical connection. It had been over a year since I had sex, which was unusual. So we came to the conclusion that we needed to divorce each other. As a result, we filed for divorce. My eyes welled up with tears, but I knew it was all for the best.
My spouse, on the other hand, has become more affectionate toward me since we announced our divorce. I was unwittingly doing the same thing since my desire to make love to him grew stronger. I was perplexed and even felt ridiculous. We were about to split up, and here we were acting like horny teens all over again. We were constantly irritated with each other, but we tried to channel that rage into sex. We had fierce, powerful, and passionate sex. And, miraculously, we gradually began to connect. We were having so much pleasure in our sex lives that it was the first time I felt refreshed in our marriage.I couldn’t figure out how we bonded after such a long period in our marriage, let alone when we were preparing to split.