There is no such thing as a perfect marriage or a perfect partner. We all have peculiarities. However, there are some nuances that may be too much for your spouse. We’re talking about your wife here. There may be a few things that irritate her, and if you do not address them, the twig will soon snap. So make a list of the top five things that irritate her and work on them to create a more harmonious environment at home.
You must remember that your wife is not your maid and that there is a certain decorum that must be followed in the house unless you have a designated person to pick them up for you. She is not required to clean up your mess. It’s fine once in a while, but if you’re doing it every day at home, it’s time to change your ways.
Hmms and nodding
She’s talking to you, and your response is as simple as a nod, a hmm, or nothing at all. This is unacceptable behaviour. You are indirectly demonstrating to her that she is unimportant to you. It is not always intentional. Your apathy isn’t helping the situation. If you don’t want to talk about something, simply say so, or else breathe in and be patient because she will take it from you, and communication is a two-way street in any relationship.
Cleaning up after your tasks
You shave or trim your hair. That is beneficial to your hygiene. However, you must also clean the sink and the bathroom when you are finished. She is not your maid! Your wife is also using that restroom. So clean up after yourself and try not to irritate or stress her out unnecessarily.
Being a baby
A little comfort is something we all need, but acting like a baby all the time, even if you have a minor cold, is not acceptable. She is not your mother, and she already has a lot on her plate. If you want some attention, which is understandable, go sit next to her and interact with her. But don’t be too demanding. She will automatically do something for you if she wants to.
Very few wives are okay with the fact that you are in contact with your ex unless she is okay with it. To some extent, it is strange. You’d had a history with those ladies. You must let go of the past and move forward. Remember that two can play the same game at the same time, and that women can be ruthless when they want to be.