Hundreds of phone calls, movie dates via video calls, endless WhatsApp chats, billions of memories, and virtual hugs. For many people, this is how a long-distance relationship looks. It is a difficult deal to crack, no matter how romantic it may sound to you.
Issues with trust and time, distance, fights, and so on. It is necessary to sail through it all. Those who are keepers, on the other hand, can make even long-distance relationships the most romantic and beautiful of all. After all, it’s not the distance between you two that matters, it’s the love you share.
However, most of us end up making several mistakes, whether intentional or unintentional, that may jeopardise our long-distance relationship. You should be aware of these.
While a few fights may seem amusing to your partner, frequent and ugly fights are a no-no. It not only makes you look bad, but it may also cause the relationship to end. It is important to remember that physical meetings are rare or impossible in such relationships, and constant fights may exacerbate the situation. Your partner may end up avoiding you in order to avoid the fights. Things may become strained between you both, and no matter how much you both love each other, if there is no peace of mind in the relationship, it is unlikely to last.
It’s natural to want to protect and protect your partner, but going too far can be annoying. Allow your partner some time and space. Put a stop to his or her activities. Because you are in a relationship, you must demonstrate faith and trust, because without it, your relationship is nothing more than an empty vessel. Assure your partner that you are there for them and that you believe in them. Check in on them from time to time, make them feel special, but don’t go overboard.
Lies and the ‘I don’t care attitude’
Lies are the most destructive force in any relationship. It doesn’t matter if it’s a small lie told to make time to see your friends or a big one. Things will undoubtedly deteriorate. Maintain openness in your relationship. Make your intentions and actions crystal clear. Finally, never adopt a ‘I don’t care’ attitude. This is neither cool nor conducive to a happy relationship. It just shows how unconcerned you are about your partner.