5 Must-Know Facts About BONDAGE SEX
Bondage sex, also known as BDSM, is far more complicated and varied than you may have assumed. The topic has definitely gotten more attention since the world saw the Fifty Shades of Grey franchise, but it paints an inaccurate picture of the sexual act. There are several misconceptions about bondage sex that need to be dispelled, so we’ve compiled a list of 5 facts about bondage sex that you should be aware of.
Full form of BDSM
Bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism.
There is nothing wrong with those who do it.
This is a common misconception that has been highlighted in the aftermath of the Fifty Shades of Grey film series. Those who engage in bondage sex are not mentally disturbed, as many people believe. It is not the result of abuse. When it comes to sexuality, it is only one side of the coin.
You can say NO
No, there is no such thing as having to do it; once you’re in it, you have to be completely immersed in it. No! You have the option to decline if you are uncomfortable. When it comes to bondage sex, it also depends on what activities you are interested in. You can always say that and not do it if you are uncomfortable. Your approval is critical.
People practicing Bondage sex themselves do not agree with Fifty Shades!
If you thought Christian Grey did bondage sex in the movies, you were mistaken! People who do it cringe at how the unhealthy relationship is portrayed, and the scenes are extremely unrealistic. Some argue that it is not abusive in that way. They do, however, appreciate how the books helped to de-stigmatize BDSM.
Doesn’t involve whips if you are not into it
If the thought of bondage sex conjures up images of whips and chains, it is time to learn the truth: it does not! Whips are only present when you want them to be. Unless you want it a certain way, it’s all play and no pain. There are numerous aspects to it.
These are only the fundamentals. If you want to try it, read up on it thoroughly because all toys have functions and there are some basic rules to them all, starting with consent as the most important!
