When you are committed to someone and give your all in a relationship, it can be heartbreaking to learn that your partner is not loyal and is cheating on you. When something like this happens, your first instinct is to end the relationship and cut that person out of your life. However, in times like these, it becomes increasingly important for you to first understand the truth of the situation.
Inquiring directly about your partner’s disloyalty may be naive, as they may not readily admit to it. So here are four red flags to look for in your partner to determine if they are cheating on you or being unfaithful to you.
She vindicates herself.
She always makes excuses when you call or try to meet with her. And when you ask her what she’s been up to, she makes up stories, and you can tell by the look in her eyes that she’s lying to you.
She makes no additional efforts.
A relationship requires two people to function. Previously, both of you would make that extra effort and go the extra mile to make the relationship work. But now it’s just you putting in the effort, whereas she doesn’t seem to be interested in making things work.
She is constantly preoccupied.
When you talk to her, she always seems distracted and only half-heartedly listens to you. When her mind appears to be elsewhere, it could be a sign that she is cheating on you.
She appears to be upset with you.
The look she used to give you on a regular basis appears to have vanished. She appears cold and distant. She no longer appears to be content with the relationship or with you, but rather unhappy and dissatisfied.