Do you feel disconnected from your partner?

When you’re in love, you’re prone to believing everything your partner says to you. This is not because you have blind faith in them, but because you believe they respect and love you enough not to lie to you. You adore them and never doubt or question their motives.

However, your partner may take advantage of your niceness and play with your emotions at times. They may pretend to love you in order to boost their ego and trick you into loving them. Look for these four telltale signs to see if your partner is deceiving you.

They make every effort to persuade you to change. They want to turn you into their “dream partner,” so they will question and criticise every habit you have. If this occurs frequently, it is likely that your partner does not truly love you and is only pretending.

You have the impression that they are uninterested in you. They don’t really listen to you and only pretend to be interested. There is no connection, trust, or spark between you and your partner.

They aren’t interested or concerned. When you tell them something important, they never ask follow-up questions and simply nod. They don’t care if you’re in trouble because they’re always too busy to show love and concern.

They never take charge. They don’t make an effort to plan or surprise you, and they rarely invest emotionally in the relationship. They’re just there because it’s comfortable and convenient for them.