Signs that you are extremely selfish but haven’t realised it

In our life, we meet a variety of people who are honest, amusing, daring, kind, selfish, and so on. The selfish people are the most difficult to work with out of all of these types of people. The reason for this is because you never know whether they are doing anything for you out of genuine respect and concern or for personal gain. As a result, it is critical to understand the motivation behind the behaviour. Furthermore, while we are easy to identify selfish people, have you ever questioned if you are one of them? To assist you with this thinking, below are some symptoms that you are really selfish but haven’t realised it.

You are oblivious of a relationship’s imbalance.

Any healthy partnership must strike a balance. This holds true for all forms of relationships, personal or professional. You are selfish if you only take from others and never give back. Also, if you never offer advise or assistance to your coworkers, this is a symptom that you are self-centered.

You are never bothered to provide negative feedback.

Whether it’s your child, partner, or coworker, you never give them negative comments because you don’t care about them at all. While it may appear to some to be a highly altruistic deed because you are not hurting the person’s feelings, it is ultimately a selfish act. You are passing up an opportunity to assist someone in improving and doing better.

You carry yourself as though you are the only person on the globe.

There are several examples of this: blocking doorways, talking loudly on the phone, smoking in places where it is prohibited, and so on. These selfish acts occur frequently and are evident examples of people believing they are the only humans on the globe.