Four golden rules for a happy and healthy relationship

Long days, failed attempts, and failed business meetings all call for us to retreat to our dens and sob our hearts out. Even more so if we have someone waiting for us at home. No matter how hard some of us try to deny that we all need someone, we can’t deny that humans are social animals. Loneliness affects us sooner or later.

That being said, being in a relationship can sometimes be worse for us than being alone. Is it always because we’ve run out of love? No, not at all. Sometimes a relationship simply necessitates an extra effort on the part of both parties involved.

However, if things go right and are done in the correct way, there are chances that you might never ever land in such a situation. Here are a few tips, or rules, that one should follow to maintain a healthy and happy relationship forever.

Maintain privacy, not secrecy

The line between the two is razor thin. And the majority of us end up crossing it. While there may be days when all you want is some privacy and things you want to keep private, don’t make this a habit. You can be private in some situations, but constantly worrying about your privacy may lead to you being secretive without even realising it. Make certain that you keep private matters to yourself while also sharing enough with your partner. Being secretive can harm a relationship in the long run.

Communicate well

Several relationships frequently fail because one of them was unable to communicate effectively. A lack of communication can be fatal to a relationship. It is critical that you two communicate effectively so that the other person does not misunderstand you. Even if s/he is, go the extra mile, make them feel special, and explain everything to them. Being calm and patient, as well as putting one’s ego aside, can go a long way in such situations.

Appreciate each other and reciprocate

Sometimes we forget to appreciate each other for the smallest, or even the most significant, of things. While this may not appear to be a big deal, it frequently scars your partner in the long run. S/he may believe that their efforts are being overlooked and that they are not being loved as much as they should be. As a result, there’s no harm in saying a heartfelt ‘Thank You’ to your partner for whatever small things he or she does for you. Don’t forget to return the favour, not every time, but on a regular basis. This will not only validate your partner, but will also make them realise that they are equally important to you and are not the only ones fueling the relationship.