Never ever do this; Things to avoid during your sex!

When you’re in sex with your beloved one try to avoid these mistakes that make your moment happier and more enthusiastic, Keep reading

1. Not kissing- Many people (including women) don’t kiss their partner when they’re having sex. Because of the positioning or they are too eager to climax and feel that it might break the rhythm. Nevertheless, it is highly recommended that you make an effort to kiss your partner during the play to make the moment enjoyable.

2. Biting Your partner- Sometimes biting your partner may lead to pain and discomfort. So make sure your partner is fully excited before you bite their ear, shoulders, neck or any other part of their body.

3. Ignoring everything but sexualised parts- Along with Genitals you should definitely pay attention to other parts of your lover’s body. Focus for some time on their entire body parts like – knees, wrists, back and stomach are highly erogenous zones for men as well as women. Gently caressing these areas will help excite your partner further in turn, increasing the chances of them pleasuring you back.

4. Putting your weight on your partner- when you’re lying on top of them, you have to be careful not to drop your weight on them. Chocking them or hindering their ability to breathe will anyway kill the moment and any chances of some good action.

5. Ending too soon/ too late- This one is especially for men. You need to have good control over your muscles to ensure that you can ejaculate at an appropriate time. Too soon and you may leave your partner unsatisfied; too late and it might leave your partner feeling as if they’re pumping iron at the gym. To avoid this, spend a lot more time on foreplay. If you take too long and can only ejaculate via manual stimulation, do your best to get your partner to orgasm and then they can return you the favour.

6. Not warning your partner before you climax- whether, during oral sex or intercourse, you need to tell your partner beforehand. Something as simple as “I’m going to let go,” will suffice. Your partner deserves to know.

7. Treating sex like porn- Openly talk to your partner before having wild sex or something you are going to practise his/her body in which what you watched on porn movies.

8. Staying quiet- Do you like to hear it when your partner is having a good time? So pay them the same respect and speak up when you’re enjoying yourself. Something as simple as a little moan, or even saying something like, “that feels so good,” will encourage them and educate them further on your moan zones.

9. Mechanical act- It may feel comfortable to you to pump away as you do at the gym, but you’ll quickly discover that most people don’t enjoy such an act. So be creative and you’ll find yourself enjoying some variation too.

10. Pretending to have an orgasm- A lot of women are guilty of this. It’s true that the orgasm of a woman is still a big mystery for many but that does not mean it should be a fake one. The main reason is, the partner would, someday or the other, get to know this and he would definitely not like it.

11. Jokes about private parts- Not everyone is well endowed when it comes to private parts. Laughing or cracking a joke about a partner’s private part may make him or her feel uncomfortable and it will only ruin the mood.

12. Comparing a lover with an ex- There can be no bigger turn off than comparing a partner with an ex-lover during sex. No matter how wonderful a sex life you might have had with an ex-partner, mentioning it while having sex is not going to help anyone.