Types of toxic in-laws

Not everyone is fortunate enough to have supportive and loving in-laws after marriage. While many people get along well with their in-laws, others find it difficult to do so for a variety of reasons. While a little misunderstanding or banter is normal now and again, poison is not. Many times, one’s in-laws are poisonous, affecting one’s mental and emotional well-being. The toxicity may also harm the relationship and cause the pair to drift apart. In light of this, below are some examples of toxic in-laws.

The boundary ignorers

Boundaries are critical in any relationship, but such in-laws simply don’t get it. They will show up unexpectedly, chat to people about your personal concerns, and demand to know all of your intimate details. They don’t seem to comprehend that their child is no longer a child.

The controllers

Controlling in-laws may assume that you or your partner are incapable of doing particular tasks, such as investing money and filing taxes. They treat you two as if you are still children who require supervision at all times. However, in the long run, this will be harmful.

The gaslighters

As the term implies, such in-laws have their own interpretation of events. Furthermore, they would never recognize that they made a mistake because they lack the capacity to do so. They are professionals at transforming your reality into something more convenient for them while refusing to acknowledge the validity of your own ideas or memories.

The manipulators

They see you as a tool to help them achieve their goals. Whether it’s from their grandchildren, son or daughter, or classmates. They don’t care about your opinions, feelings, or choices, and they will go to any length to get what they want.

The addicts

If an in-law has a major issue with substance abuse or alcohol, it can completely devastate the family and have a negative impact on the children. There is a perpetual sense of tension and worry in such families.

The narcissists

Narcissistic in-laws will continuously portray themselves as the ‘greatest’ marriage in the world, setting a good example for everyone. They despise the fact that their own children and partners steal the spotlight from them. They will spend a lot of time convincing you that you will never be good enough.

The critics

These are the most commonly encountered types of toxic in-laws. They are continuously criticising you and your partner, including your appearance, career, parenting, and so on.

 

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